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The way to a man's heart...a wedding photographer's perspective

Although this proverb may be pretty outdated, there is an important truth behind it which is relevant always, and the wedding of Alistair and James embodied it perfectly. Here's why I think food is so important:


From our first proper meeting, on a beautiful day in Cambridge, I knew that James and Alistair's wedding would be a joy to photograph. Having time to walk and chat with them was great; it allowed us to discover some shared interests and I began to get an idea of what was important to them both. We talked about how they met, our dogs, their love of travel and cooking. By the time we had our final meeting, and discussed important people, and the running of the day, I had a strong idea about what I needed to capture.



But it wasn't until I arrived at the venue, the stunning Merchant Adventurers Hall in York that it became completely clear what was most important. Although this incredible Medieval building is a wedding photographer's dream and quite possibly one of the most beautiful, historic buildings I have been lucky enough to photograph, it was the people that made the day so special.




After a warm welcome from the incredibly well dressed grooms (Cock of the Walk Bespoke) who appeared calm and collected, (on the surface at least), I was introduced to the fabulous team working away and preparing the Great Hall for the ceremony and wedding breakfast lead by Alice at Homegrown Hospitality (and including Helston Street Florist, Limelight wedding Emporium). As the guests then started to arrive, unfortunately shaking off their umbrellas, the atmosphere began to change from a hive of activity to a warm and welcoming excitement and chatter. Family and friends and multiple best men were greeted and the importance of these relationships to both grooms was evident.

I could easily describe in detail, the many beautiful moments and thoughtful inclusions but hopefully my images will do this for me as there are too many to mention, from the beautiful cake, made by an old friend, to the perfect break in the rain to allow for a confetti shot. Instead, I want to tell you about the wedding breakfast.

A same-sex male couple confetti shot

The real truth in the title is that the sharing of great food with the most important people in your life cannot be underestimated. Watching the guests relaxed, laughing, sharing thoughtful food and seeing the pleasure this brought the grooms was perfect. The intimacy of the banquet seating and the bespoke communal platters which were lovingly designed and created, made this a really special part of the day and I could see why this had been so important to Alistair and James in their planning.



Guests at a wedding breakfast


Every detail was beautifully simple and fit the majestic surroundings perfectly meaning, what could have easily been an intimidatingly grand hall, felt like a homely dining room. The service was immaculate and I must add, that I was very lucky to have a dinner during my break and the food was dreamy!



Sharing the love, and food, with the inclusion of some beautiful, personal speeches, made this meal extra special and a pleasure to be part of. What better way to show your love for your family, friends and each other.


A groom making a speech

Clearly, also, the wedding breakfast (and the complimenting wine, I'm sure) was the perfect fuel for a excellent evening of dance floor antics and games on the slightly damp lawn.


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Love is about friendship, shared experiences, and good conversation, all of which were abundant at this beautiful wedding. And yes the route to our hearts can definitely include food, but its the connections we build in sharing it that truly mean so much.


It was an absolute pleasure to spend the weekend in the beautiful city of York and with such a wonderful group of people. Huge thanks to Alistair and James for sharing their day and for making me feel so welcome.





Here are all the other wonderful suppliers involved:


Beautiful cake: Grace Robinson (friend)







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